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? SiCh www.asach.com. vn .... -LA -- HA 'X'� -c* GHI CHEP VE, CACH *J NGlJOI MY NUOI D8Y CON �-� - ;J� © nha nam tMtGK>1 A? Ki:lM NHUNG hien dang song cung chong va c6 con gai nh6 ten 6 Xoai Ch icago, My. Sau khi tot n g h i e p Th;;ic s T Q uan trj k i n h doanh 6 Dc;ii hoc Minnesota, c6 lam viec t;;ii mot c6ng ty tu van thuong hieu cho cac truong dc;ii hoc va t6 chuc giao d(,JC. Mang thai va sin h con trong thoi gian a My, Kam Nhung da quan sat tl ml nhCmg net uu viet trong each nguoi My nu6i dc;iy con n h6 . Cac bai vieh ve each nguoi My cho con !:In, dc;iy con ngu cua c6 tren VnExpress dUQC b;;in doc rat quan tam va ban tan soi n6i. Nh�n thay tam hCru lch Ion cua de tai nay v6i doc g i a, c6 da quyet dinh viet Con la khach quj, t6ng hop l;;ii cac quan sat va suy nghT cua minh ve each ng uoi My cham con. Trao adi v. 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Chuang I: MANG BAU Chuang II: CHAM s6c TRE Chuang Ill: CHO CON AN Chuang IV: CHO CON NGU Chuang V: DAy CON MQT cAcH Tl)' NHIEN 101 Chuang VI: DAY CON Tl)' LAP Chuang VII: DAY CON KY LUAT Chuang VIII: DUA TRE HOAN HAO KHONG TON T�I HAYDUA TRE HOAN HAO CHINH LA CON BAN Chuang IX: NGUOI M� HOAN HAO KHONG TON TAI HAY NGUOI M� HOAN HAO CHfNH LA BAN Chudng X: 255 HQC TU cAc BA M� TREN KHAP THE GIOI 282 LOI BQC BACH 299 TAI LI�U THAM KHAO 301 " "' ; LOI NOi DAU "Con mu6n m9t qua bong th�t to! Th�t to!" Dda be gai m�c chi�c vay hong co df nh no sau lung vu on hai tay Len. Ngubi dan ong phong ma, th6i th�t ch�m de t9o thanh m9t qua bong Lon cho be gai do. Nhung ong vua th6i xong thl m9t dda be trai nhay len de tranh qua bong. Ngubi dan ong tU t6n noi: "Felix, ta dang th6i qua bong to nay cho Carrie. Con co the dQi toi lLJQt, phai khong nao?" C�u be g�t d§u. Nhung luc ong th6i xong qua bong thl c�u be nay l9i nhay len tranh. Ong quay sang c�u be va noi: "Ta hieu, con mu6n co qua bong do. Nhung bay gib la lLJQt cua Carrie. Con co the dQi toi lUQt mlnh, phai khong nao?" L§n nay thl c�u be ddng im, khong nhay Len tranh nua. Sau khi th6i xong, ngubi dan ong quay sang bao: "Cam on con, Felix. Gib thl ta se th6i cho con m9t qua bong th�t to nhe." TOi ngoi l�ng im quan sat ma nhu thay thbi gian thong dong troi truoc mat. Vi nguoi dan ong nay da khong tlm duong tat: Ong khong quay sang "ra Lenh" cho c�u be "DQi d�n lLJQt da!" Khong gi�n du vi c�u be khong nghe lbi. Khong th6i d9i m9t qua bong cho Felix truoc cho xong chuyen. Ong cd di theo m9t con dubng da d1nh, nhac nho c�u be, thOng cam voi mong mu6n cua c�u be, nhung v§n kien d1nh nhac c�u be dQi, roi khen ngQi khi c�u be ngoan. . �?.1 �?.� 1.>�Y.� � �tf/,il ... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. .. .. Toi khong biet nguoi dan ong nay la ai. Bay chi m9t nguoi dan ong het SUC b)nh thUong, dang chdi VOi may dua nh6 trong Cong Vien, mQt ngUOi dan ong t0i khong biet ten, khong biet nghe nghi�p. khong biet la bo cua Carri e hay cua Felix. Nhung each ong ta XU Ly tlnh huong voi hai dua tre dien ra truoc mat toi, di;!p nhu m9t do9n phim tai li�u ve each nuoi d9y tre. Luc nay, toi da hQc phuang phap cua nguoi My d� luy�n Xoai ngu ngoan va an ngoan. Nhung dan dan toi nh�n ra rang, each nguoi My dc;iy con khong chi nam a chuy�n luy�n con ngu ngoan hay d9y con biet yeu thich vi�c an uong. Ma nhu m9t thu huang hoa phang phat trong khong khf, n6 tc;io nen m9t bau khong khf, m9t moi truong nuoi tre ma trong d6, duong nhu m8i ong bo ba mfi! toi g�p lc;ii la m9t phap su, dang doi dai voi dua tre theo m9t each "tu luy�n" dua tre thanh m9t ca th� Lon Len tt,J tin, tl,f l�p. day cam thong, CO du Cong Cl,J d� hoa nh�p VOi CUQC song. Va khong chi dua tre, ma ca nhQng ong bo ba mfi! d6 cOng c6 thbi gian d� t�n huang CUQC song cua chfnh mlnh. N eu c6 th� t6m tat bang m9t tlf, to i nghT toi se mo ta moi truong a6 la "healthy" - m9t moi truong rat lanh mc;inh a� dua tre va ca gia a)nh phat tri�n . V6i q uyet t a m tl m h i €u bang al1Qc cai gl tc;io nen thu "nuoc hoa" nay, nhl1 m9t ngl1bi hQc nghe, toi Lang l�ng toi cac vuon hoa, CaC thl1 Vi�n, cac bao tang, lop hQC, tham gia cac ho9t OQng nh6m cua cac ba mi;! ... Va toi cu l�ng le quan sa t each nhang ong bo ba mi;! nay giao tiep v6i tre. Toi lam the thU vi�n va t)m a9c nhQng cuon sach aUQc coi la c§m nang nuoi d9y con cua ngUbi My. Nhang lan aau t6i thu vi�n. nhang cuon sach can ban c6 san tren gi a cOng aa au khien toi t ram t ro Ve Sl,J' r6 rang, khoa hQC va h� thong trong each nuoi dc;iy con cua ngubi My. Khi aa tham nh�p sau hon vao c9ng a&ng phl,l huynh d My, toi aLJQC gi6i thi�u t6i nhang cuon sach khong con la can ban naa ma mang tinh chat chuyen khao, v6i nhung nghien cuu, phan tich tam Ly a� giai quyet t�n goc r� nhung van ae trong nuoi dc;iy tre va ca van ae tam Ly cua cac ong bo, ba ml;!. Toi thl,ic Sl,/ cam thay may man vi mlnh aa VO tlnh co aLJQc m9t aieu ki�n tuy�t voi a� hQc lam cha ml;!. Chat lQC nhClng gl mlnh aa hQC aLJQC trong cuon sach nh6 nay, toi hy VQng no Se giup fch ChO CaC b<;in, trd thanh mQt tai li�U a� cac bc;in tham khao trong hanh trlnh nhieu kh6 khan ma cOng rat a8i ngQt ngao nay. Kam Nhung . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ... LOI NOi DAU>>>f!l;,f9 '7t .... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ... .. ... ..... . ...Jn.•• '··� "� CJ fteur>d 1fut nfiung fiad expanded � writing an par>enting. to an enlir>e boo� CJ was Vel"Jj, fiappy, �l" � success and �l" tf.e many, fa.milks wfio wiif r>ead and feurn ir>om � r>esear>cfi. CJ afso ielt Vel"JJ, privifeq_ed tfut sometfung. we pmctice as a fa,miCy, was incCuded in � writing. 9fe tfu� it is Vel"JJ, impol"tunt to lbiow our' cftiedr>en as individua£ peopfe as we believe G,od fias &eafed eacfi one witft unique giits and per>sonaftties. 0ur> fiabit oi spending speciuC time witft eacfi cftied is one tfut we use to fiefp us par>ent tftem as best we can. CJt is not ane we invent.xi, but tfut we fearned ir'om otfter> wise par>ents and ftave �nd to be Vel"Jj, fiefpiuf in our' fa,mify,. G6:f'touqf'i cuft-ur>es di�. par>ents Clcr'oss tf.e wor>ed ftave tf.e same Cove �l" tf.eir> cfiiedr>en and desir>e to do wfiat is best �l" tftem. � fiope our> stor>y, can inspir>e otfter> par>ents as tf.ey, do tfus vitaC tasfz oi r>aising cfiiedr>en." "Yoi l"elt vui milng Mii bi& nfiung da vie"t tftanfi m{it cu6n sacfi nftilng gi cO elt vinfi �nfi vi ccm cftl.UJ,� nfto ctia gia dinfi cftung toi d119c cJu &;ii tr>ong cu6n sa.cfi nay,. @fiung toi tin ning. cftung. ta ee fa. m{it oo � vai tai nung va ttnfi oocfi fzfia.c bi?t. 9f'i%c cfiung toi c6 &i giun dunfi � Jin m6i dm tr>e Junfi fa. c0.cfi q,i-up cfiunq, toi nu6i dct-y, can t5t nfiel:t. ®u'IJ f&>ng pfuli fa. pftlldng pMp cfiung toi bJ ngfu r>a ma cftung toi cilng. da fu;ic nftilng. 6ng b6 bu m? tftong tMi Mac va fzfii 6p dlfng tftay, l"elt ftilu iJ... m¢.c du. van fusa cUa cfiung ta c6 � fzfia.c nku. nftung cfiu m? tr>en fzfuip tM giai dfu y,eu tftlldng can c1.Uj,� cd.m ftung. cfio c6.c bct-n fzfii tftl)c � tr>qng tr>a.cfi v6 cilng quan ' " tr>qng nay,. @fii @. J}nbavqft (Ywin 8"ities, mmnesota), m9t-nq.t1i'Ji m? my, ro oou J..1.UJ.en d119c cju (!qi tr>ong. cu6n saJi nay, CHVdNG I MANG BAU EJLing suy nghf quci nhieu va lo idng. Khi thCii khdc tdi, bc;m se biet bc;m phdi lam gl. Helen Parr, phim "The lncredibles" Trong gi&i sinh vien du hQc & My co cau dua "MBA la Make Babies in America". Trong truerng hQ'P cua toi, cau dua do l�i h6a th�t. Ngay 12 thang Tam nam 2009, toi h,1 S\l ao khoac den, m(>t tay nam tay chong, m(>t tay xach va li bu&c ve cua Kiem tra an ninh san bay Schiphol (Ha Lan). Chong toi om toi th�t ch�t. Toi quay dau bu&c di, nu&c mat da chay, toi chi hcri hcri ngoai dau l�i de anh khong nhin thay mat toi. Qua cong Kiem tra an ninh, toi bu&c nhanh ve m(>t goc kin de khemg ai nhin thgy. Va ng<>i d6 kh6c. Toi kh6c ma tU'&ng khong biet khi nao mr&c mat m&i het chay. M(>t nam sau, chong toi ding len du&ng sang My h9c, nhung trong khi toi hQC not nam thl'.r hai °' Minneapolis, anh l�i bay t&i Chicago. Minneapolis - Chicago, 8 tieng lai xe, 1 tieng ru&i bay. M(>t nam tiep theo d6, chung toi Clr Ian luqt: gQi ca hai thanh pho la nha. Va trong m(>t tuan dau thang Nam nam 2011, toi wa hoan hi chuan bi cho l� tot nghi�p, wa kinh MANG BAU > > >Rr"'� � ····················································· ng�c kham pha ra m()t h�t giong be bong da nay mam trong minh. V�y dung la vtra tot nghi�p kh6a MBA nay, toi da bat dau sang m()t khoa MBA khac. Vui thi rat vui, nhrrng khong the khong lo lang. B&i tot nghi�p c6 nghia Ia di xin vi�c! Gier c6 them trach nhi�m bau bi va chuan bi cho dl:ra con sap sinh nfra. Li�u toi co kham noi nhfrng thay doi sap tCri khong? "Kho than hai dl:ra, a ben day khong co ai cham soc. Neu a nha thi mt; nau chao mong gio d?u xanh cho an vtra ngon wa bo." Mt; chong toi S\lt sit qua di�n tho�i. Mt; toi thi nghI ngay t&i khau h?u can: "Ben day c6 ban sfra cho ba bau khong, neu khong thi con xem co dl:ra nao sap sang My, mt; glri cho may h()p:' Hai leri nhac nh& cua hai ba mt; lam d()i l�i trong toi bao nhieu cau chuy�n tiem an tir hoi toi con la sinh vien di lam them va m6i gier an trrra ngoi venh tai nghe cac chi bau bi trong van phong "dam d�o". Uong nhieu nU'&c mia viw. Bau bi thi phdi an khoe vao, an cho hai ngU'iYi CO' ma. Ong chong t& thay m� t& ep an thi khiep qua, nhU'ng phdi chju vi phdi bOi b6 cho con ch&. Phdi kieng rau ng6t, nhiin, dao, ngdi c&u, b9t san nhe. Dirng an cua, thai nam ngang day. Dirng an rau cdi, lg.nh b1,mg! Hg.n che c19c sach thoi, hg.n che may tinh, di�n thog.i... Cm)c SONG QUANH TA cnlNG 1>01 THAY Lan dau t&i b�nh vi�n kham thai dinh k)r, don toi la m()t co bac si tre trung, xinh xan. Co lien tl,IC CU'Cri va chuc mirng toi. V�n biet a My, dich V\l khach hang luon a tieu chuan rat Cao, nhrmg dU'Q'C Slr dl,lng trt,l'C tiep l�i cang thay cam kich. "Bay gier toi se kham h\mg nhe," co bac si bao toi nam len ghe cho b�nh nhan roi nh� nhang SCr va h >> 1.. 7�.;... ....... .. . .. "4 �.,..••. • • An h : Roo mfor2.ca Nhin nhfrng ba bau My di tren dm'mg, toi quen han tm'.rng tuQ'Ilg cua minh ve nhfrng con tjt m�. Trang hQ kla, rat khoan thai, khoe khoan va duyen dang du da sat ngay sinh. HQ kha nang v�n d('mg trong giai doc;in c6 bau. Cac l&p yoga cho ba bau nhieu nhu nam. Nhieu ba m� tuO'Ilg lai ding tl,l hQp nh6m de cling nhau di b('>, bcri, va t�p the dl,lc. Nhfrng hoc;it d('>ng the chat nh� nhang, hQ'P ly nay giup ha bau thon gQn, deo dai, d& m�t moi, cang thang, tat nhien ai ding biet rang day la S\f chuan bi rat tot cho qua trinh Vll'Q'I: cc;in. Vi�c c6 bau khong lam phl,l nfr My hc;in che cO' h('>i t�n hu&ng CUQC song. Toi v�n thay hQ (y mQi nO'i, quan ca phe, nha hang, trung tam mua sam, cong vien, bao tang, ho(;lt d('>ng tinh nguy�n ... M('>t Ian khi dang di chcri & Alaska, toi g�p m('>t doi VQ' chong t&i tir California, co VQ' dang co bau m('>t vai thang nfra se sinh. HQ mo ta chuyen di du lich nay la m('>t "babymoon" (tuan trang m�t tru&c khi sinh con), ham y chi chuyen du lich CUOi cling "chi CO hai VQ' Chong'', tru&c khi b�n r('>n V&i CUQC song CO them em be. Ba bau My khong "kieng". B&i tir "kieng", hay "ky,", "kieng ky," hi�n len nhu m('>t 6ng than to l&n mat trQ'Il trirng: "Co cam co dll'Q'C... khong thi tac hc;ii to l&n lam co